A Civil Tongue

   Jesus taught love.  He never hesitated to confront those who were guilty of wrongdoing but He did so with love and a genuine concern for their soul.  He corrected those who needed correction but gently and with compassion.  Even when slandered, insulted, beaten and nailed to a cross He still spoke with love, “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.” (Luke 23: 34).

   Our discourse today has become violently personal.  When speaking to someone with whom we disagree accusations, name-calling and hateful speech are the norm.  Nowhere do we find a civil discussion on a contentious topic.  Politicians argue rather than reach compromise for the betterment of all.  Colleges reject those who would say things some don’t want to hear rather than allowing for an open discussion and serious thought.

   Even within the Church there is a lack of Christian love and acceptance.  Arguments erupt over the most minor issues when a respectful discussion could resolve the difference to the satisfaction of all.  If the pastor has the temerity to remind the congregation of the fact that we are all sinners and need to repent they risk hate mail and vile comments rather than respectful discussion.

   Words, once spoken, can never be recalled.  Careful consideration of our words can avoid insult, injury and alienation of another.  If we approach each other with Christian love we can accomplish much.  We can openly and fairly discuss our differences of opinions.  With respectful discourse we can help others understand our faith and better understand theirs.  We can increase God's kingdom on earth.  We can do all these things with love and caring for each other.  Without a civil tongue we can do none of these things.